Saturday, January 26, 2013

Where Is The Love?

   The world we live in today can sometimes be a cold one. I am not talking about the temperatures, the wind chill, or the 3 foot long icicles hanging off of your roof. I am talking about love. Where is the love? There is actually a really good song by the Black Eyed Peas called "Where is the love?" It talks about how this world is going downhill. People don't love each other any more. There's always somewhere to be, something to do. And anyone that stands in the way is just an inconvenient obstacle and they are treated as such. How often do we wave at our neighbors, smile and say "hi"? Or bring over cookies to a new neighbor, or to someone who is down in the dumps? How many times a day do you talk to someone who you didn't know before?
   There is this thing the scriptures talk about a lot. About how if we don't have "it" we are nothing. And if we are found with "it" at the last day, it will be well with us (see Moroni 7:47). This thing is called charity. Charity is the "pure love of Christ." It's doing things that Jesus would do. Cliche I know, but true. Happiness is a choice. No one makes us mad. No one makes  us do anything. We have the choice. Choose to be happy. Choose to love. Jesus taught that the greatest commandment is to love God. And the 2nd most important one is to "love thy neighbor as thyself." It's a commandment to love. Jesus loved everyone. He didn't turn anyone away. There is no evidence that he turned anyone away from being healed or taught. He loved everyone. We are supposed to be like Jesus. It can be really simple...serving someone out of love, not out of obligation,  but out of sincerity of heart. Be a little kinder. You don't have to be in a hurry everywhere. Try to make someone's day. You never know how meaningful a simple smile, wave, or a "how are you?" can really be. Try it out. You will feel great, I promise!

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Stick It To The "Man"

   The scriptures mention a lot about a "natural man." What is the natural man? In the "Guide to the Scriptures" it states: "A person who chooses to be influenced by the passions, desires, appetites, and senses of the flesh rather than by the promptings of the Holy Spirit..." We also read that the "natural man is an enemy to God.." (Mosiah 3:19). So yielding to those desires of the natural man is contrary to God's will for us. As a missionary, I have experienced the natural man in a lot of ways, some I didn't expect. To me, the natural man is someone who wants to take the easy road. The "path with least resistance" as they say. The natural man will look for any way to get out of doing something hard. As missionaries, we have a pretty rigorous and strict schedule:

6:15am Arise and pray 
6:30-7:00 exercise 
7:00-7:55 shower, get dressed, eat breakfast
8:00-9:00 personal study
9:00-10:00 companionship study
10:00-11:00 language study (Spanish)
11:00-12:00 lunch 

12:00-9:00pm work, work, work. 

  That is the schedule we keep, rain or shine, sick or healthy, sore or not, even on Christmas Day, Sunday or your birthday. There are a lot of things in this schedule the natural man doesn't want to do. The natural man doesn't want to wake up before the sun is up, kneel down and pray. He doesn't want to exercise for at least half an hour before 7am every single morning (except Sunday). He doesn't want to be all ready by 8:00 to study for 3 straight hours. He doesn't want to be on his feet non-stop for 9 hours, talking to people on the streets, getting yelled at, kicked out of apartment complexes and ridiculed. What he really wants to do is sleep in, eat whatever and whenever he wants. Sleep instead of study. Stay inside and play video games or watch TV instead of always being on the move, being productive. The natural man doesn't want to be productive and effective. So if the natural man is an enemy to God, we cannot afford to yield to those things that the natural man wants to do. Otherwise, it puts us in a sticky situation with God. In the Bible, 1 Corinthians 2:14 says "...the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit." We can't receive spiritual knowledge or progression if we continuously yield to the natural man. How can we overcome him? Studying the scriptures. Praying. Going to church every Sunday. Fulfilling our callings in the church. And much more.
   Now, hear me out. I am not saying that I have completely overcome the natural man. I am far from saying that. Is it hard for me to get up EVERY morning between 6:15 and 6:30am? Yes. Absolutely. Is it hard for me to leave the apartment at noon, knowing it could be 92 degrees outside, and knowing I won't come back for 9 hours? Yes. I fight with the natural man every day. We all do, in our own ways. Do I yield to him sometimes? Yes I do. But I keep fighting. I ain't perfect. We may lose battles here and there. We just have to win the war. 

"For the natural man is an enemy to God, and has been from the fall of Adam, and will be, forever and ever, unless he yields to the enticings of the Holy Spirit, and putteth off the natural man and becometh a saint through the atonement of Christ the Lord, and becometh as a child, submissive, meek, humble, patient, full of love, willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon him, even as a child doth submit to his father." Mosiah 3:19

Saturday, January 5, 2013

Back In The Saddle

   Well after a brief break from blogging of about 2 months, I am back! And I can't believe it is the year 2013. I was thinking about doing a really cliche post about how it is a new year and so we should all set goals. We know we need to set goals to be better. Everyone sets goals this time of year: losing weight, exercising more, saving for a new car, getting a better job, something. But I have decided to do something a little different. I have been studying about the topic of "mercy" the past few days. What is mercy, anyway?
   The definition found in the Guide to the Scriptures reads "The spirit of compassion, tenderness and forgiveness. Mercy is one of the attributes of God. Jesus Christ offers mercy to us through His atoning sacrifice." God loves us. We are all His children. As a loving father, He wants what's best for us and wants us to make the right decisions. He has given us so many gifts. He really gives us everything we have. But one of the most precious things He has given us is the gift of mercy, through His Son Jesus Christ. How does one obtain this mercy? Some people say you don't have to do anything. That mercy is a free gift from Christ's sacrifice. In a way, they are right. His sacrifice redeems all of us so we can be resurrected. But we must repent and live the way he lived to earn the full effects of Christ's mercy. Christ's mercy is the only thing that can save us from the "demands of justice." 

  "And thus mercy can satisfy the demands of justice, and encircles them in the arms of safety, while he that exercises no faith unto repentance is exposed to the whole law of the demands of justice; therefore only unto him that has faith unto repentance is brought about the great and eternal plan of redemption." 
-Alma 34:16

  Mercy is was what saves us from the fall of man. If we have faith in Jesus Christ and repent of our sins, and try to do our best everyday, mercy will have claim on us. And the opposite is true as well, as you saw in that scripture. Jesus Christ is "mighty to save." But, his mercy does have conditions. Each person will have to experience consequences for their acts here on earth, whether that be good or bad. I am so grateful for Jesus Christ's atonement. And the role is plays in our lives. Yes, we all make mistakes. Yes we aren't perfect. But if we just get up one more time than we fall, we will be OK. So I guess if I absolutely have to set a goal for this new year to satisfy my readers, I would say...do whatever I can to qualify for Christ's mercy at judgement day. Oh...and maybe to lose a few pounds too. 

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